Real swingers one fwb longer term. We prefer single men but are willing to try couples although we havent encountered one that we really click with to spend time with at the lake go horseback riding and camping motorcycle riding 4-wheeling hiking or just go out occasionally to dinner and then maybe go shoot some pool or dancing and wind up at the nudie bar and/or who knows what after that. My parents always taught me that if you will pick up a book and read it you can do or become anything you want.